My colostomy story began when, at age 56, I discovered that I had late-stage colorectal cancer. A large tumor was discovered during my first colonoscopy, and it was cancerous. Thus began a long journey that eventually led to colostomy surgery on my 64th birthday. After the initial surgery to remove the tumor and part of my colon and rectum, I had radiation and two rounds of chemotherapy. The radiation permanently damaged my intestines and caused a bowel blockage that required more surgery, followed by years of chronic diarrhea and abdominal pain. I finally found a surgeon in my home state who cut out some of the intestinal damage and gave me the surgery that infinitely improved my quality of life.
Before the colostomy, I was on a very restricted diet, but I can now eat many raw foods, including what I had missed the most for six years—salads! It has taken me a while to adapt to changing and wearing the pouch, and I have had some “accidents” along the way. These are usually caused by my skin allergy to adhesives, which causes the skin barrier to fail when I have had a significant amount of stoma output. Still, I usually have enough time to get to the bathroom before the leak causes a major problem. I have, however, received some valuable tips on handling and preventing problems online, because there are no ostomy nurses or support groups near where I live. I have also shared information on how to reduce skin allergy problems and passed on what has worked and not worked for me.
My background: I am originally from Baton Rouge, LA, and have a Master of Journalism degree from Louisiana State University. I am a retired Army officer, having spent 20 years on active duty, mostly as a Public Affairs Officer. I served two overseas tours in Germany and met my husband when we were both Army majors stationed at the Presidio of San Francisco. My cancer was diagnosed in 2007, while I was working as a civilian for the US Army Cadet Command at Fort Monroe, VA. My colostomy surgery was performed by Dr. David Beck at Ochsner Medical Center in New Orleans. He is also retired from the Air Force.
Saying that my ostomy gave me my life back is not an understatement. I don’t think I have ever felt better in my entire life. I was diagnosed with Crohn’s when I was 15 and in the 12 years I suffered before having surgery, I never once achieved full remission. I missed more school than I attended, had to take a medical withdrawal from college, and struggled to find and keep a job. I was in so much pain and having so many symptoms that I couldn’t leave the house for entire days at a time.
I had ulcerative colitis that was unresponsive to any treatments including remicade infusions. In January of 2006 I had ostomy surgery. My first comment was “It is so quiet down there.”
